Planning a Destination Wedding

A destination wedding is one where you get marriedexpense for your guests. The more advanced notice
at a location different than where you or your familiesyou can give people, the more likely it is they will be
live. They are particularly popular for second marriagesable to come.3. Have an itinerary or suggested list of
or with those couples that are a little older and don'tactivities for the days before and after your wedding.
want a lavish affair. The most common destinationsAt a traditional local ceremony, the bridal party expects
are beach locations, like Cancun, Hawaii, or thea rehearsal dinner the night before, and the wedding
Caribbean. If you are considering getting married at anceremony and reception, and that's it. For a destination
exotic location, here are some things to contemplate.1.wedding, your guests will likely be there for several
Consider what time of year to have your wedding.days, and you will want them to enjoy themselves
Hurricane season lasts from June through November,while you attend to any last minute wedding details.
with the most active period from mid-August throughAlthough they are there primarily to support you and
October. The chances of a hurricane actually hittingwitness your marriage, most will also want to squeeze
during wedding aren't that great, but if a majorin some vacation time after traveling a long distance.
hurricane hits the location within a few months of yourCoordinate with the local wedding planner for golf
wedding, there could be significant damage, whichoutings, snorkeling, trips to local sites, etc. Your guests
could affect your ability to have your ceremony (not towill appreciate your efforts to make their time
mention the hardship for the people that actually liveenjoyable.4. Carefully check the legal rules. If you are
there). If the possibility that your wedding could begetting married in another country, or even another
disrupted makes you nervous, consider an area lessstate, make sure you double-check the laws regarding
prone to hurricanes, like the Pacific side of Mexico ormaking your marriage legal. Most wedding planners or
Hawaii. You should also carefully check the typicalevent locations will be familiar with the laws in their
weather conditions (including the temperature andarea, but it pays to double-check, just to make sure.
average rainfall) at the locations you are evaluating. InYou don't want to return from your honeymoon, only
general, the northern Caribbean (e.g., Bahamas) can beto find out you aren't legally married.5. If you decide
a little cool in the winter, while other areas such asyou'd rather have your ceremony locally after all, you
Cancun might be too hot in the middle of summer.2.can still have a "beach" themed wedding any time of
Evaluate your guest list. If you want to make surethe year. Incorporate the theme into your reception hall
some of your older relatives (grandparents, great Aunt,decorations by using sand, sea shells, island-style decor
etc.) can be there, make sure they are able to traveland bright colors like blue and green. Dress up the
conveniently to the location where you wish to havereception tables with some beach themed wedding
your wedding. If you live on the East Coast, you canfavors such as floating flip flop candles or sea shell
get to the Caribbean fairly easily, but Cabo San Lucasbottle openers and your guests will be transported
or Maui would encompass a whole day's travel. Keepdirectly to the sun and sand. Use exotic flowers like
in mind that many of your friends and quite a fewBirds of Paradise, and give your reception menu a
relatives will not be able to make it, even though theytropical flair by offering selections like grilled chicken
would no doubt love to go. Finding the time to get offwith pineapple salsa. You can always jet away to the
of work and paying for the trip will be a majorwarm sun and blue ocean on your honeymoon!